Counting By Marbles

This is quite a long story, but if you have the patient to read it, I guess you will gain something today. =)
I was cleaning my room when my cupboard was attacked by the termites, I found this really old newspaper clipping, the date was 2nd November 2003, a 7 years old story which I kept it long enough, to again remind me how much I shall treasure things in life and not let regrets take over when you have little time left on earth, so I thought I would want to share with you, who are reading my blog now.

The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it's the quiet solitude that comes with being the first one to rise, or maybe it's the unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first few hours of Saturday morning are most enjoyable. A few weeks ago, I was shuffling towards the kitchen with a teaming cup of coffee in hand and the morning paper in the other hand. What began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time.


I turned the volume up on my radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning talk show. I heard an older sounding chap with a golden voice. You know the kind like he should be in the broadcasting industry.


He was talking about 'a thousand marbles' to someone named 'Tom'. I was intrigued and sat down to listen to what he had to say.


"Well Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your job. I'm sure they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away from home and your family so much. Hard to believe young fellow should have to wok 60 or 70 hours a week to make ends meet, Too bad you missed your daughter's dance recital.
He continued, " Let me tell you something, Tom : Something that has helped me keep a good respective on my own priorities."


And that's when he began to explain his theory of a 'Thousand marbles."


"You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average person person lives about 75 years. I know, some live more and some less, but on average, folks live about 75 years old.
Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3,900 which is the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire life.
It took me until I was 55 years old to think about all this in any detail and by the time I had lived through over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays, I got to thinking that if I lived to be 75, I only had a thousand of them left to enjoy.
So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had, having ended up visiting 3 toy stores to round up 1,000 marbles, I took them home and put them inside of a large, clear plastic container right here next to the radio. Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it away.
I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the really important things in life. There is nothing like watching your time here on earth run out to help you get your priorities straight. 
Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign off with you and take my family out for a breakfast. This morning I took the very last marble out of the container. I figure if I make it until next Saturday then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is a little more time."


You could have heard a pin drop when he finished. Even the show's moderator didn't have anything to say for a few moments. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about.
I had planned to do some work that morning and go to the gym. Instead I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss and ask her out for a breakfast. "What brought this on?" She asked with a smile.
"Oh nothing honey, it's just been a long time since we spent a Saturday together with the kids. Hey can we stop by a toy store later? I need to buy some marbles..."


I was only 18 years old when I read this article, and I knew I have to keep it by pinning this on my little DIY board in my old house. I still remembered after reading this, I actually went to both my parents and read it out loud to them when they were having breakfast, I never felt how inspiring my Saturday morning was, and now I still feels the same after reading it every time, something to keep us thinking how limited time we have on earth, and how much we can really do when we are still young, and never too late to realize the priorities in life you have once set.

I hope you felt the same way like I do after reading this entry, if you think you want to share it with your friends, spread the love.
Till then, cheers and have a great Sunday morning. ^^

The Road Not Taken

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim

Because it was grassy and wanted wear,

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I marked the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way

I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference. 

-Robert Frost-

How many of us actually took the road less traveled? How many of us actually gotten the courage to risk in chasing dreams? If you were given the chance, will you do it for yourself? 

Chances are not given by anyone but yourself, we create our own opportunity and go for it, I believe in that, and you?

Watching myself in 10 years time, and see if I already took a big step and being happy that I chose to chase my dreams instead of playing safe.

We'll see...

Stealing

My dad was just sharing a story about all this snatch thieves and robbery happening so often now, that being a girl walking on a street is just a disadvantage (there goes my courage to tell him what I planned to do...)

Was thinking about you snatch thieves and robbers, I wonder how you feel stealing things from people who are not prepared for you coming, you snatch and made your victim fall thus hurting themselves.

I wonder, do you feel good keeping things that once belongs NOT to you but someone else? I hope you really feel insecure and paranoid about everything, that soon someone will just knock on your door and claim back the things you took from them.

I actually pity that you have to live your life in the dark and being paranoid all the time.

Good Night Monday

Been sleeping late these few weeks, not staying up on purpose, but just don't realize that time flies...

Another week has begun, and the second day of the week has ended, how fast... T_T

Skin getting really bad these days, and I am putting on weight like no one's business...

I need some exercise, but I just don't have the time, or the energy to go after working hours, or even weekends, I want to go cycling though, last time I used to go Bukit Cahaya to cycle and I do remember how interesting the insects were, they were HUGE! Reminded me of that spider that I spotted in my brother's room, which I thought it was from the freaking dinosaur age, long skinny legs, with an oval body, until now I can still picture it in my mind, damn creepy. (FYI I am okay with all kinds of insects but not arachnid)

Going off for a short break this week, let's hope I will loose some weight when I am back to KL and not putting on more...

Also early greetings to my fellow Hindu friends, Happy Deepavali!

Till then, I shall visit SPCA soon since it's so near my place. =)

You My Friend

Met up with an old friend on Friday night, it was good to see him again, but knowing him that long, he must have a lot of things that he wanted to share, it was an unhappy experience for him.

To You :
When things happen, there will be a majority of  people spreading rumours and start to judge on the situation, be it the fact that these people might not even know you, they are just simply listening and judging from a third party, do accept the fact that message being passed through so many channels, it somehow will be different from what the real situation was.

This world is just like that, human beings are just like that, some don't even bother asking and just accept what others say, so what you going to do about it? Go to all these people one by one and explain to them? No, you don't need to do that, and simply just let it be, soon or later when some other things caught their attention, they will forget what was yours.

I am sorry for what she had done to you, and I know a moment of anger can create so much trouble, but then again, it's okay to have mistakes, but to never repeat them again, if we don't have any mistakes in life, we will never know what's right or wrong, mistakes is part of chapters in our life, and if life is just perfect, what is the meaning of perfect at the end of the day?

Yes she could be the one masking it and telling everyone a different story, which is unfair to you, but then again, you have to remember when someone finds out one day the truth is not what she was telling, she will going to have her own judgement day, but let's not nail that image in head and hoping it to happen, life goes on, and these are just possibly the 1%  of your 100% life, so why let the small number affect the big number you should be taking care of?

Come on now, someone else is definitely worth more your effort for all this, and no matter what, people who loves you and knows you well, they will always come back to you and ask for the truth and not being judgmental, even if you were wrong and it was really a mistake, I am sure it doesn't affect them to accept the truth and accept who you are.

You are an engineer, you should be good in numbers, let me put it this way :
Estimating we have 6,878,400,000 human beings on earth, and you might only have 5 real friends for life, the math should be like this for your pie chart in life.


1% = 6,878,399,995
99% = 5 

You got us to support you, in any ways. =)

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it 
does enlarge the future.
-- Paul Boese.

Life's A Movie

Looking at someone else, is like watching a movie, movie of his/her life.

We are all actors in our own life, I don't quite agree if we are also the director of our life, if we are, we should have known what is going to happen next, with full script and storyline in hand, all prepared.

Sometimes when you focus too much on the details, you don't see what is happening on the outside.

Step back a few steps, and look into the big picture with many other details, things can be easier.

When you are watching other people's movie, do you know you are being watch too?

I miss the days where you can just be anyone you want.

Wedding

My parents attended this wedding yesterday night while I was at Hennessy Artistry. 

They brought home the wedding door gifts, which makes me go aww...

Usually what we get will be the usual chocolates in heart shapes, which wrap nicely in cute little small boxes, but for this one, I noticed the difference and uniqueness. =)

It was these 2 little cute tiny bottles of honey, something very simple, but yet unique.

 

The message on the bottle is just right

Something to consider in life, people will remember you in your own unique way, you don't need to change because someone ask you to, because no one knows you better than yourself.

Record Breaking

Seriously, those who has been friends with me for quite some time, will know that I can just fall asleep within minutes, yes seriously. 

I don't really have the difficulty in falling asleep, but just not my luck to sleep peacefully throughout the night.

I have to do this because I myself find it hilarious, that if I were him, I will probably think this girl is just 'amazing' in her own ways... T_T 

To Poor Friend : I am sorry! It's a bad idea to go online while you are lying down, it's really a bad idea for me... T_______T

This is the day I passed out without me knowing that the crime scene was captured! >.<

Back To School

Remember the days when we carry heavy school bags, wait for the school bus, and wear the same thing everyday, that was not so fun, until I studied in my uni, and I think it was more fun for those who actually gotten the chance to study overseas - Thats what I wanted to do but well I don't have the chance back then. =)

I always wanted to go back to my previous uni to visit my lecturers, but yes I just didn't have the time yet.

But one thing is that, no matter how long you have been working already, once you step foot in a college without the formal attire, naturally you will feel like a student again, do you? 

Well I was at Taylor's Lakeside for G+ meeting and Churpchurp fly kite day! The first thing that came across my mind when I stepped in the college - "Omg you young brats are just damn lucky right? Whoever who is studying there now, you are enjoying every moment  man!"

Lecture hall was seriously huge and all equipment was just talking about technology, like seriously...

It makes me really wanna go back to uni and study again.

If you don't like looking at your lecturer, you can shift your sight to the beautiful lake right behind the piece of solid glass, nice? It is...

Students wannabe

And after class, we went fly kite with the blue round bird!

This is my first time flying a real kite, I remember I used to DIY my own kite, like just tying a string to a pink plastic bag and it will just fly, those were the days when I was only a primary student, and now kids get to have kites that some cost you more than RM50, lucky lucky lucky...

Number 1 thing is to have a nice proper kite that will never let you down.

Number 2 thing of course with a big compound for you to run and make the kite touch the sky

Should go fly kite again someday although it was tiring, oh you know what, at Taylor's Lakeside, you have Starbucks and Baskin Robbins, really seriously you lucky student!!!

 Next I was thinking I should go visit FRIM Kepong. =)

Have you had your Oktoberfest?

Friday nights are not meant to end early, because Fridays are meant to be a celebration of a new beginning of a weekend!

What do I usually do when it comes to Friday night? Well back to my boring days, I will just skip every single  after work activities and go home, but after much realizing about life, I should do things more than just going home and sleep, and one of the things that I did with my fellow colleagues was having some chill time at the Oktoberfest last week Friday, yea you hear me right, it was at Souled Out, some of you might be there but well we just didn’t see each other.

And talking about the crowd? It was crazy!

Seriously if you are a beer person, you won’t want to miss the 1 liter mug with Tiger beer in it, and yea I love beer that leaves a layer of white mustache on your upper lips, and hell no kidding, the mug is just one really collectable item you can show your grandson how was the Oktoberfest back then, means the mug is freaking solid and you can use it as a weapon of defense.

Now you see, the mug on the right looks like a beer float, try it with ice cream next time, and I will be the 1^st one to gulp everything. =D (And go home like a human size walking tomato)

The last time I tried gulping everything in one shot (Don’t do that although it is only RM50 per 1 liter of Tiger beer, and yes you get to keep the mug, but still..), I ended up spending most of my time in the washroom trying to get the devil out of me, so lesson learnt: Beer is for drinking, can be faster than sipping red wine, but not gulping everything at one shot, that’s call wastage, or for people like me, we call it the suicide case.

That is one HUGE mug and yes Huai Bin here you go, if I were to finish just half the mug, I guess I will be way redder than him.

Nothing beats spending some quality time with the Nuffies, and here is one of my favourite shot with Yuen –She is almost single and available, for more information you can send in your CV and let’s see if she gives you a green stamp.

(We call her Ah Chan, I don’t know why but well, everyone does have nicknames, what was yours?)

Also here are some of the nuffies who were there that night.

I wasn’t working but just turning on my laptop to charge my phone, just to clarify, I am not so much of a workaholic, am I? (Michelle, Pinky, and Nic Gan)

Wikipedia told me that Oktoberfest is known to have the largest crowd in the world, let’s make it happen in Malaysia!

Enjoyed most of the happenings there, the company, the food, the copious amounts of Tiger beer, and of course, you can’t miss a chicken dance from an Oktoberfest!

The tune is still kinda stuck in my head, till then; let’s go for the next Oktoberfest! =) 

If you don't know much about Oktoberfest, time to do some research before you head to one! 

http://oktoberfest.com.my

Santa Please

Dear Santa,

I am making an early wish here, can I have them in front of my door step when you visit me?

Oh please I will get you a faster reindeer so you can be here early before December, but make sure you wear short pants and singlet, it's hot here in Malaysia!

My Wish List :

1. Olympus EPL-1

2. MAC Book Pro (Not greedy, 15 inch is enough) - Someone influenced me blardy hell (you know who you are okay!)

3. Car

Only 3 for now, please please please!

I did behave!

Are You Moist Enough?

Talking about skin, especially for Asian, we live in Malaysia, where our skin get damage easily...

So... Are you moist enough?

For girls, you won't know how many bottle of lotion are stored in my room, I think there are 6 bottles in my closet, that shows how important I want my skin to be moist like all the time... But why 6 bottles when you can settle it with 1 bottle of Vaseline?

Your new skin saviour in town that comes in few range that you will really have to try it out before you say anything!

Well I believe in smooth skin, so ever if your boyfriend touches you, he will feel good too... (Erm well...)

Will I see you at Vaseline pool side event?

Say hi to me will ya?

Live Life

I need to get myself a nice camera, I know I have talked about this on my previous posts before, but well, I don't have the money yet, but I guess I will get it before the year ends, just a present for myself. =)

Went dinner with a friend the other day, and bought 2 books without second thought, cost me not much but definitely not the amount I would spend only on 2 books, well... People changed right?

After what happen, I guessed I would say it was a good one, and yes I never fail to learn plenty from every fall I got back up, it's all in the mind, if you can control your mind, you can do whatever you think you can. 

Someone told me to look after the number 1 - Myself, not anyone else, because if anything goes wrong with number 1, there won't be number 2 or 3 or 4 or 5... (Thanks hey, like seriously...)

I never learnt so much in my life in such a short period, like in 2 weeks time? It's like a super fast forward growing up process, that I realized, I wasn't living my life, I was tied down to so many unnecessary things, and I start to think back, I was in doubts too until now, I felt that I am living again, it's like a whole new life again, things that I can't do before, I don't dare to pursue, I think I am doing it now.

What made me really change is that, I learnt how to handle unexpected surprises, and trust me, if you can handle it, there is nothing else you can't.

I remembered after when I shifted to my new place, there was this night when the electricity was off, and due to the fact that I stays really close to nature, thus if there is no light, it is totally pitch black.

I was practically alone in the dark, I parked my car, off the lights, and wow there you go, you don't know what is going to happen next.

I did not stay in the car or drove to some place and wait till the lights are back, but I walked down the stairs slowly, and every corner, it gives you the feeling that there could be something waiting, wanted or unwanted, it will come, and it very much depends on how you are going to face it. 

Life is exactly like that, you can't see what is there for you, for all you know it's just a maze, with many corners and it's dark, every corner you take and turn, there might be unexpected incidents, and every decision you make, it's gonna lead to a different story, and what would play the role as the light - Our Mind : Expect the Unexpected

So I am here, telling those who are going through a hard time - Your Mind is Your Torch in Life

If you can picture it in your mind, you will have it in your hands.

I Got A Cat As Friend

This was last year during Tiger Standout, it was us meeting each other, for the very first time, I don't know how he looks like (expecting him to be looking catty) and I think he knew how I looks like...

He was just in front of me but I never noticed it until when he was about to leave the party, I figured it out it was him. =)

Credits to Akiraceo

He is one friend that I am lucky to have. =)

The Good Old Things

Had a good Sunday, it's been long since I hang out with my best friends. =)

As the saying goes, you don't need to have a lot of friends, a handful of best friends is just more than enough, and I have them... =)

We were talking about the good old days, those days where you can just go anywhere without worrying about anything, despite the face that parents are the ones that worried about us... After class, will just go hang out at the nearest cafe and have some bonding sessions with college mates, or catch a movie when I was still attached, to an extend that we don't know what else movie to watch because most of the movies we already watched, everything was just simple and nice, even stress will be from final exams, and now i recall back, was that even stress? 

Now we are all grown up, from topics like meeting up new dates to talking about marriage and future, these topics don't seems to be new anymore, we kinda like forget that we have all grown up, no more living in the 18 19 year old life, we are now adults, where career is number one priority, well thats the age where you go all the way before you reach mid 30s or 40 when you just want to sit back and relax a bit. From wearing school uniform and carrying heavy bags with text books on your hand, to wearing office apparels and carrying laptops, different stage of life.

You won't know how rare I log into my Facebook, so everytime I log in, almost 80% that I will get the news that one of my friends gotten married, or some gave birth to a second child, and it feels weird because time passes so fast that I sometimes thought we are just starting to age? But then opps no, we are in our mid 20s and well almost 30s? Scare the shit hell out of me, because I have nothing yet!

But well, my time will come, I think... =D

Happy weekend and hello Monday...

Yeap I don't remember when this picture was taken, opps I am aging, seriously people...

Do You Know?

It's been more than a year I have been with Nuffnang, and I am sure some of you might have dropped by our office before, but do you know our office has a really pretty view when the day is welcoming the night?

And when the night is here.... and when all the lights are turn on... It's just pretty... =)

I'm finally taking a short holiday next week, and I need a camera, any good suggestions?

It's been the longest time since I go for a holiday, and every time when I know I am travelling, the 1st thing that comes to my mind would be my Hush Puppies luggage bag hehe...

Good morning everybody!

Yes my just woke up face, sorry if some of you just lost your appetite for a morning breakfast... Teehee!

History Repeated

I don't know why, I always have this thing with drains, whenever it involves me crossing drains, almost 50% I will fall down.

Yes not the first time I hurt my legs and scratch my skin on the tarmac, and it happened again last week when I finished my meeting, walked out to the guardhouse and was about to cross a freaking super small drain, tadaaa! I slipped and fell, like a freaking ballerina...

Except mine wasn't that graceful, and instead of a pretty finishing pose, i was something like this... T3T

First thing on my mind - ANYONE LAUGHING?! Look straight to that someone whom I followed to this meeting, in my mind telling him " You better not laugh, don't even try to smile! FTS... "

Was limping back to the office, well thank god it was just some scratches... 

Now because the wound is drying up, therefore the colour is darker... Can't wear tight pants to avoid scratching it against the wound...

Well to make myself happy again, I went for some yummy dessert, look at that clumsy and happy face, yea that tall glass of thing, really did make me happy. =D

Oh something random, I realized that I don't really know how to camwhore, and to have a really decent picture of myself, I have to try many times... Face problem I think... T_T

Have a good weekend people!

**SMILE**

Note to self : Need to lose those fats on my face T3T

Celcom MTV World Stage

To all music lover fans out there, thanks to Celcom Channel X, they are bringing down some of the hottest performing artists to perform live in Sunway Pyramid.Well, especially when you are into Katty Perry's pretty blue eyes, Tokio Hotel, or even Wonder Girls ( Yes the pretty girls from Korea),  you should not be missing this change to be there with them don't ya?

Here is your chance to be hear them sing and perform live for you, you can dance all you want, you can scream all you have, and you can just sing like there is no one listening!

Venue : Surf Beach @ Sunway Pyramid
Time : 31st July 2010, 6PM

Visit Channel X if you want to get a taste of a real cool concert, are you going? Yes you are!

Munchy's Music

Let me list down some of the ways you can get girls around you, well at least these attracts me...

1. Your killer suit (Suit you put charm on it)
2. Your stylish hairstyle
3. Your killer smile
4. Your skill of sweet talking
5. Your skill in instruments
6. Your personality - Down to earth prince charming
7. Your dance moves
8. Your way of being shy when you get compliments
9. Your way of looking
10. And if you know beat boxing

Let's say if you can do something like this and you are in Malaysia, and on top of that you are looking for a chance to perform and show your skills, well your chance is here!

Let's look at how good beat boxing kick ass when you are not in the right place for it, but you get the pass from the judges to finish off the whole performance, without them shooing you away with the bell on their hands.



Now Malaysians here's you chance of beat boxing competition!
Music Munchy's



I bet you can do better than this boy can you?

I Met HIM

I remember I used to admire him a lot, but the fact that I will only see him on TV, forget about it, how you would even bump into him even if you are in Bangkok, like what you studied in Add Math during secondary school, the kebarangkalian (Possibility) is like 0…

But hell yea, after how many miserable years, I met him, not going to miss a chance to take a picture! Actually few pictures ehehe *shy* ; someone even told him I am his hardcore fan since 14 wtf…

So well here you go, some pictures I taken with him during this Celcom Xplay party hehehe… 

 Look at that fan girl face wtf...

Well if you are a fan of UTT and you know what, you can see him at the next Xplay party. !hi

***Melaka, Pure Bar, Friday 23rd July***

Creative Now

Was surfing the net, and randomly saw this laptop, it's customized in a heart shape, damn pretty, perfect for a valentines' gift, or I guess you can use it for proposal instead of a ring.

Malaysia, can you have more customized design laptop now?

Shit I wish I can have this... T_T

Do You Invest?

I’m only in my mid 20s and I have debts to pay off, nope I don’t have a credit card yet, nope I don’t own a car yet but soon (Yes that will add in to my ‘To Pay Off Debt Before I Die’ list).

So with my current salary, like any other people, we will have to separate more than half of the amount to pay off debts, and only some to survive for a month, while you might not even have anything to save for future, horrible goodness… >.<

So we need… Side income? Definitely investment is the thing you should be looking at it now, learning since young is beneficial and trust me, you will know why.

So how do I invest? I know nuts about investing, that’s why now you see all sorts of business out there are open to tackle the needs of dummies like me, we have agents to help us invest and best it’s all online now - www.fundsupermart.com.my

Fundsupermart is a unit trust specialist, and usually we have the impression that investment is expensive, we have to hold a certain amount of money before we start to invest, but Fundsupermart offers to have investors to begin investing regularly every month with just RM10.00 ONLY!

Start investing already! You won't want to grow old with a grumpy face just because your pockets are empty... >.<

It's been a while

It's been a while since I cook...
I mean real cooking... Hello I can cook, its the matter of it is tasty or not...

I shall do it next weekend, this weekend schedule is filled and I'm excited yay!

Love Story

Been long since I spent my whole Sunday at home, watched 2 movies in a row, bad choice for my eyes...
I watched The Notebook & The Time Traveler's Wife, both are just sad but beautiful love stories...

What is it like to just love 1 person for the rest of your life? I don't know about the guys but I guess girls are pretty much into loving only you kind of theory in their life, yes I am one of them...

I had few love stories before but non of them lasted, and occasionally it makes me think if I am going to have few more stories in my life? That would be a bad news because I am not 18 anymore...

After these 2 movies today, I am starting to think how my story would be, like The Notebook, how would my story be in my notebook? Would it be as touching and lovey like I always wanted? Or just another ordinary story, I don't know but I think I should start writing down everything in a notebook, so he could read it for me when I am losing my memory. =)

I am a sucker for beautiful love stories... Someone save me...

黄昏

搬进来这新家已经有半年时间了
偶尔间都会看到黄昏的露台
我都会很珍惜那一下下的时候， 好好的欣赏黄昏的时刻

我就是那一些会为了黄昏而落泪的人
我就是那些会为了那么的一点感动而哭泣的人
我就是那些喜欢躲在房间里享受那一个人的感觉的人
我就是那种喜欢把事情都联系到感性的话题的人
我更加是喜欢靠在男友胸膛听他心跳而感到温馨的人
我还会是会喜欢跳上男友背后跟他撒娇的那个傻妞

可是啊。。。
凡事都会有那个可是的东西在搞鬼，你说对吗？

Positive & Negative

Do you think that humans are more prone to have negative thoughts?
I have a situation here :

Pal A is facing pressure from his work place, and he is giving himself pressure to achieve the innitial target, but the picture don't seems to be a happy ones,what expecting is not coming,what is not expected is affecting the initial target.
Negative thoughts:
Pressured plant the effect on pal A, gave up and continue doing nothing,hoping for miracle to fall
Positive thoughts :
Healthy pressure, in fact giving self pressure not to give up, don't sit and wait, find solutions and do his best

Now...
Negative is always easier to 'achieve', just like running down a slope,or walking down on a escalator,not even talking about stairs.
Positive is always the hard ones, you need to be strong to sustain the positive thoughts, like walking up batu caves stairs.

So which one are you? Negative or positive?
I'm definetely with the positive site,because that's what make life more challenging, and yes fun.

Cheers.

Why Smart Phones Can Be Dumb Phones

Why Smart Phones can be Dumb Phones?

Well I was on my way to a meeting this afternoon, took the monorail and phew lucky enough I found a seat...
Before I warm up the seat, I overheard a conversation from behind, 2 ladies were talking which mobile phone is better...
"Eh Sony bagus kan? Cantik lah model baru tu..."
"Ya kah? Tapi I suka Nokia lebih lah... Ingat nak beli iPhone tapi tak de duit, Blackberry bang sedang guna, dia kata bagus juga..."

Well well well... I was using a Sony phone until it gave up on me after 3 years, long enough for me to change to a better phone, I remembered I was in dilemma, was picking over another Sony and a Nokia phone, but ended up buying a Blackberry Bold...
Nope, no regrets on my decision, in fact I think it's a good pick, but the only thing missing was a data plan...

Yes I bought it but WITHOUT a data plan, it's just like having a super hot & good looking boyfriend but he can't perform in bed ahem, how sad?? VERY SAD...

Reason why? Because I was using the go green telco, and to subscribe for a data plan, it cost me a bomb, how to afford? So yes went on with a what you call a smart phone but it was dumb, just like any other normal phones, you can only make calls and do sms, and some other things where you won't need an internet.
No I don't understand when Nicholas Chay told me this " You cannot feel your Blackberry's power yet right? Coz you are not using it also... Once you feel the power, you will be addicted..."

Addicted? Nope I don't believe, how much can you do with a smart phone? Okay ya you can check mail and stuff, what else? Surf the net? How often? Not good enough from your laptop?
Until the evil force was here , I subscribed to DiGi plan for RM68!!!... That's it, my life changes since then...

I will just play with my phone when I am not doing anything else, I will surf youtube even when I am walking, or erm in the toilet, yes magazines in my bathroom is all collecting dust already... But what are you not using your smart phone to the max when it's only RM68 (Kiasu right? I know...)
With DiGi Smart Plan, it's just like having a small pond with a lot of fishes!

So I don't need a boyfriend anymore because I got my wonder BB with DiGi Smart Plan, just like have a super hot + good looking + caring + loving boyfriend + definitely good in bed, awesome shit!
Ok was just kidding about don't need a boyfriend, if I have him, I will make sure he is a smartphone user too, probably a BB, so we can has bbm, can jimat sms cost okay!

Are you planning to make your smartphone smarter with DiGi already? =)
Till then!

My Neck

I think I slept on a wrong pillow with the wrong'est position, my neck and back is all aching that I can't look down, left and right smoothly! 

Monthly visit is here too (If you know what I meant), gaah I am one of those unlucky ones, when I am having it, I usually suffer the numb and aching for the 1st few days, haih...

Why women... Why? 

Dunno since when this was taken, and I can't recall who took this, but yea definitely fits in my moody mood today. 

Cheers people!

Thanks Mom

Thank you for taking care of this little brat eventhough there are times she let you down, and you still believe in her.

I love you and I'm glad that I have you as my mom in this life, if I can even pick who should be my mom for the next life, I wish to have you again. =)

I am not a princess, I don't live a princess life, but because of you, constantly making sure we all leave under a shelter that I felt like a palace in a small hut, that's how great you are... 

I don't need to worry about anything when I go to bed, because I know you will be there tomorrow to give me support when I need them...

I love you mom, and you know I really do, right?

Happy Mothers' Day!

Besides Papa Goon, brother and me, Ben loves you too!

Supermarket Flash Mob

Flash mobs are really interesting, but it fails when the ending everyone should have just disperse, but they didn't lol...

I guess the whole idea of flash mob is to catch the public in surprise, and leave them in doubt like "Wtf just happen?..."

I personally enjoyed the tribute to Michael Jackson -Beat it flash mob the most.
While searching trhough others, I actually found this...


Pretty interesting lol...