Old Soul

Tonight I caught myself drowning in some of the old songs, and also roughly scrolled through this old blog of mine, those content I used to blog about, pretty funny reading what my younger self had to say, and remembering the glorious blogging era, now has also somewhat died down.

Saw that I actually started blogging since 2006, those days I was still studying, passing exams, submitting assignments, hanging out with friends, puppy love, to now where I am, I must say it's a huge milestone. Now a mother to three, been through different work experiences, but one thing seems to remain the same, I am still as lost, as emotional as I was.

Is the nights like these, that I have so much to think about, to feel, to remember.

Saw this very good quote somewhere :
Often enough people keep wishing they can go back in time to fix certain things, but no one really think about what they can do at the present to impact a better future.

Let us all do better now, for a greater future?

单身好还是一起好？

前几天才和我的一位好朋友谈到这个话题， 他说他很担心自己为什么还是单身一族，而我已经结了婚有了孩子。

我想了想，其实不管你现在是什么身份，我觉得最重要还是要开心幸福。

有些人会说：哇你有豪车驾，有大房子住，你嫁的很好叻！
顿时的我很想就说’难道这些事测量一个人幸不幸福？很肤浅喔。

如果那个女人有豪车，有大房子，可是老公却完全是那一种不会体会，谅解，不疼家人的，那你还会说她家的好吗？那宁愿单身不嫁，起码知道不必憋着这一股气到入土。

那如果一个女人没有什么豪车，大房子，但是还是有那基本的生活设备，老公孩子一家大小和谐共处，我觉得这个才叫真正的嫁得好。

俗语说，宁愿单身，都不要急着嫁人，凡事都好好好的思考，也不要因为那一时的冲动，换来一生的不幸福。

我的那把火呢？

偶然在网上找到这一片文章，很准确地描述了我这一年来的心情。
真的很需要再一次点燃要熄灭的那一把火。
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拿起笔，随思绪慢慢细诉，文字，是我唯一的工具。
　　夜深，迷迷糊糊却就是不肯睡，半梦半醒间看到自己的不堪，堕落，更看见荒诞，看得清清楚楚明明白白。
　　曾经有过良苦用心，花费精力绞尽脑汁。曾经也有过无悔无怨，一味付出不求回报。曾经有过不顾一切，挣脱束缚追求自由，也有年少无知，不知天高气势高傲。如今，失魂落魄，颓败流连以及息息一奄。
　　累积，沉淀，日与俱长，就这样慢慢将不好的行为演变成一种习惯，简单的一个习惯，就把我所有的一切都包含。
　　现在的生活习惯了在半夜精神饱满，习惯了不去留意任何机会，习惯了放弃自己，习惯在自责与颓废中留窜。
　　想要变回以前的模样。
　　突然心中就忽隐忽现的这么冒出一串光芒，
　　适应黑暗太久的心感到不知所措，甚至有那么一丝畏惧。
　　我想要使劲挖掘那埋没已久的激情与不知所踪的勇气，试图一点点还原过去的神态，然后，拾捡着被自己遗弃的所有阳光。或许，会力不从心，或许，将来仍旧毫无踪迹，但是我希望，希望坚持和不再畏惧能够永远陪伴着自己，不论将来是否明媚与那些是否属于自己，至少得争取，得换来无悔。
　　飘渺的将来是沉是浮？是好是坏？没有人知道，现在的我也好像不太适合去思索那所谓诺言与憧憬是否会变成泡影，把握住、坚持住，我想这比一切都重要、比一切都现实，比一切一切都要贴心。
　　想与不想，做和不做，我想，我只求无怨无悔！
　　得与不得，懂和不懂，我想，我知道自己要什么！
　　那捕捉不到的未知迹轨，不把握，会怎样？这辈子就这么过了，白在这个世上走一场。

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Imperfection

Almost teared when I read this quote. 

Heroes and heroines  out there, you must remember your worth! 

You know it takes several mistakes to know what is right, be sure that mistakes you made are not wasted, they brought you somewhere and mold you to become who you are today.

Don't be afraid to go for what you think is right although thousands might think its a mistake.

You judge and you tell yourself what are the mistake, not anyone else.

To Love At All

Pinterest has always been my best source of good quotes and interesting pictures, pretty much still addicted to this. :) 

Here I found one I thought I would want to share...

To love At All Is To Be VULNERABLE

Wedding Year 2013

This year, I have been receiving quite a number of 'red bombs', and these people are not just friends, but those who are really close to me. =)

Those days when we were younger, all that we have seen are just who and who are in a relationship, now it feels like a trend to be engaged! EVERYONE IS JUST GETTING ENGAGED! 

Soon it will be first born child, then second then third... It's the age thing I am telling you...

One of my best friend's bf came proposing to her in the office, and another best friend of mine is getting married this September, and another wedding coming up in June! 

To all the couples who have been recently engaged, happy engagement! 

Can't wait to attend and send our wishes to the couple(s) 

Kinda like the set up in this picture, anyone doing a dinner at the neighbourhood? 

Do You Judge?

To be honest, it is natural for human being to judge, I judge too, but I will  try not to judge and jump into conclusion, or at the least of judging someone on the good side - I think she is capable, I think she probably knows a lot, I think she is good in what she does...

Even if that person doesn't give me good vibes, I will TRY to (the keyword is try, sometimes its just right at your face and you couldn't resist but to judge based on that) think maybe he/she has her reasons, maybe they have been through a lot that's why...

Read an article, this site have been my positive energy provider, I hope it does the same to you. :)
Enjoy peeps!

http://www.positivelypositive.com/2013/05/06/stop-judging-everyone-so-much-especially-yourself/