Met up with an old friend on Friday night, it was good to see him again, but knowing him that long, he must have a lot of things that he wanted to share, it was an unhappy experience for him.
To You :
When things happen, there will be a majority of people spreading rumours and start to judge on the situation, be it the fact that these people might not even know you, they are just simply listening and judging from a third party, do accept the fact that message being passed through so many channels, it somehow will be different from what the real situation was.
This world is just like that, human beings are just like that, some don't even bother asking and just accept what others say, so what you going to do about it? Go to all these people one by one and explain to them? No, you don't need to do that, and simply just let it be, soon or later when some other things caught their attention, they will forget what was yours.
I am sorry for what she had done to you, and I know a moment of anger can create so much trouble, but then again, it's okay to have mistakes, but to never repeat them again, if we don't have any mistakes in life, we will never know what's right or wrong, mistakes is part of chapters in our life, and if life is just perfect, what is the meaning of perfect at the end of the day?
Yes she could be the one masking it and telling everyone a different story, which is unfair to you, but then again, you have to remember when someone finds out one day the truth is not what she was telling, she will going to have her own judgement day, but let's not nail that image in head and hoping it to happen, life goes on, and these are just possibly the 1% of your 100% life, so why let the small number affect the big number you should be taking care of?
Come on now, someone else is definitely worth more your effort for all this, and no matter what, people who loves you and knows you well, they will always come back to you and ask for the truth and not being judgmental, even if you were wrong and it was really a mistake, I am sure it doesn't affect them to accept the truth and accept who you are.
You are an engineer, you should be good in numbers, let me put it this way :
Estimating we have 6,878,400,000 human beings on earth, and you might only have 5 real friends for life, the math should be like this for your pie chart in life.
1% = 6,878,399,995
99% = 5
You got us to support you, in any ways. =)
Forgiveness does not change the past, but it
does enlarge the future.
-- Paul Boese.
Friday, October 29, 2010
Looking at someone else, is like watching a movie, movie of his/her life.
We are all actors in our own life, I don't quite agree if we are also the director of our life, if we are, we should have known what is going to happen next, with full script and storyline in hand, all prepared.
Sometimes when you focus too much on the details, you don't see what is happening on the outside.
Step back a few steps, and look into the big picture with many other details, things can be easier.
When you are watching other people's movie, do you know you are being watch too?
I miss the days where you can just be anyone you want.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
My parents attended this wedding yesterday night while I was at Hennessy Artistry.
They brought home the wedding door gifts, which makes me go aww...
Usually what we get will be the usual chocolates in heart shapes, which wrap nicely in cute little small boxes, but for this one, I noticed the difference and uniqueness. =)
It was these 2 little cute tiny bottles of honey, something very simple, but yet unique.
The message on the bottle is just right
Something to consider in life, people will remember you in your own unique way, you don't need to change because someone ask you to, because no one knows you better than yourself.
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Seriously, those who has been friends with me for quite some time, will know that I can just fall asleep within minutes, yes seriously.
I don't really have the difficulty in falling asleep, but just not my luck to sleep peacefully throughout the night.
I have to do this because I myself find it hilarious, that if I were him, I will probably think this girl is just 'amazing' in her own ways... T_T
To Poor Friend : I am sorry! It's a bad idea to go online while you are lying down, it's really a bad idea for me... T_______T
This is the day I passed out without me knowing that the crime scene was captured! >.<
Friday, October 22, 2010
Remember the days when we carry heavy school bags, wait for the school bus, and wear the same thing everyday, that was not so fun, until I studied in my uni, and I think it was more fun for those who actually gotten the chance to study overseas - Thats what I wanted to do but well I don't have the chance back then. =)
I always wanted to go back to my previous uni to visit my lecturers, but yes I just didn't have the time yet.
But one thing is that, no matter how long you have been working already, once you step foot in a college without the formal attire, naturally you will feel like a student again, do you?
Well I was at Taylor's Lakeside for G+ meeting and Churpchurp fly kite day! The first thing that came across my mind when I stepped in the college - "Omg you young brats are just damn lucky right? Whoever who is studying there now, you are enjoying every moment man!"
Lecture hall was seriously huge and all equipment was just talking about technology, like seriously...
It makes me really wanna go back to uni and study again.
If you don't like looking at your lecturer, you can shift your sight to the beautiful lake right behind the piece of solid glass, nice? It is...
And after class, we went fly kite with the blue round bird!
This is my first time flying a real kite, I remember I used to DIY my own kite, like just tying a string to a pink plastic bag and it will just fly, those were the days when I was only a primary student, and now kids get to have kites that some cost you more than RM50, lucky lucky lucky...
Number 1 thing is to have a nice proper kite that will never let you down.
Number 2 thing of course with a big compound for you to run and make the kite touch the sky
Should go fly kite again someday although it was tiring, oh you know what, at Taylor's Lakeside, you have Starbucks and Baskin Robbins, really seriously you lucky student!!!
Next I was thinking I should go visit FRIM Kepong. =)
Tuesday, October 05, 2010
Friday nights are not meant to end early, because Fridays are meant to be a celebration of a new beginning of a weekend!
What do I usually do when it comes to Friday night? Well back to my boring days, I will just skip every single after work activities and go home, but after much realizing about life, I should do things more than just going home and sleep, and one of the things that I did with my fellow colleagues was having some chill time at the Oktoberfest last week Friday, yea you hear me right, it was at Souled Out, some of you might be there but well we just didn’t see each other.
And talking about the crowd? It was crazy!
Seriously if you are a beer person, you won’t want to miss the 1 liter mug with Tiger beer in it, and yea I love beer that leaves a layer of white mustache on your upper lips, and hell no kidding, the mug is just one really collectable item you can show your grandson how was the Oktoberfest back then, means the mug is freaking solid and you can use it as a weapon of defense.
Now you see, the mug on the right looks like a beer float, try it with ice cream next time, and I will be the 1st one to gulp everything. =D (And go home like a human size walking tomato)
The last time I tried gulping everything in one shot (Don’t do that although it is only RM50 per 1 liter of Tiger beer, and yes you get to keep the mug, but still..), I ended up spending most of my time in the washroom trying to get the devil out of me, so lesson learnt: Beer is for drinking, can be faster than sipping red wine, but not gulping everything at one shot, that’s call wastage, or for people like me, we call it the suicide case.
That is one HUGE mug and yes Huai Bin here you go, if I were to finish just half the mug, I guess I will be way redder than him.
Nothing beats spending some quality time with the Nuffies, and here is one of my favourite shot with Yuen –She is almost single and available, for more information you can send in your CV and let’s see if she gives you a green stamp.
(We call her Ah Chan, I don’t know why but well, everyone does have nicknames, what was yours?)
Also here are some of the nuffies who were there that night.
I wasn’t working but just turning on my laptop to charge my phone, just to clarify, I am not so much of a workaholic, am I? (Michelle, Pinky, and Nic Gan)
Wikipedia told me that Oktoberfest is known to have the largest crowd in the world, let’s make it happen in Malaysia!
Enjoyed most of the happenings there, the company, the food, the copious amounts of Tiger beer, and of course, you can’t miss a chicken dance from an Oktoberfest!
The tune is still kinda stuck in my head, till then; let’s go for the next Oktoberfest! =)
If you don't know much about Oktoberfest, time to do some research before you head to one!
Saturday, October 02, 2010
I am making an early wish here, can I have them in front of my door step when you visit me?
Oh please I will get you a faster reindeer so you can be here early before December, but make sure you wear short pants and singlet, it's hot here in Malaysia!
My Wish List :
1. Olympus EPL-1
2. MAC Book Pro (Not greedy, 15 inch is enough) - Someone influenced me blardy hell (you know who you are okay!)
Only 3 for now, please please please!
I did behave!